There are Love Language books about children in regards to family relationships, but I think the principles of this book can easily be applied in a school setting as well. Think about your class, do you have a student who frequently brings you a little gift? Maybe he/she picked a flower from his/her flowerbed or gave you a new a packet of stickers. This student's LL is receiving/giving gifts. Do you have a student who always wants to be your helper? This student pushes in all the students' chairs before coming to circle time or realizes you forgot your whistle at recess time before you do and brings it to you. This student is showing acts of service. What about the student who always wants to hold your hand when he or she is line leader? His or her L.L. might be physical touch. Have you noticed how when you compliment you class some students sit up a little straighter and with other students it has little impact? The students sitting up straighter are probably in the words of affirmation group. During this month of love, try an experiment, see if you can identify the love languages of a small group of students that you have concerns with. Those students who are falling through the cracks, the behavior problems, the quiet student who is reluctant to participate, and see if reaching them their their love language makes a connection. You might be pleasantly surprised with the results!
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